Most of the ppl think that relationship is all about love..
For me love is only one of the criterias.
Besides love, the relationship also needs toleration, honesty and as well trustworthy
It is true that everything started from love but at the end, it is what makes the relationship can last forever or long...
so the answer should be toleration btw the couple.
No matter how much you love each other but without toleration during cold time, you would not end up happily and as this incident keeps repeating, the relationship will become sour
This can be consider as the toughest time during a relationship..
either one of the parties become bored of the relationship, then it will eventually become bored.
So what makes toleration important is that it'll save your lovely fairytale relationship..
Then, the next question should be how to tolerate??
There are times that either couple will be stupid and fight for anything for whatever reason..
If he/she can be reason then just try to reason with them...
There is no point arguing with them when they are in such a fuking stupid mode..
If he/she cant be reason then just take the blame, be a kind towards your relationship if you really intending to save it... When the cold war eased then reason yourself..
I've been in such a situation before and really wanted to give up at that point of time, but because i felt that the relationship did worth for me in taking the blame then i'm fine with it....
On the other hand, if you really think that you cant accept the cruelty or the stupidiness of your partner then might as well leave it early...
this is because once u felt there's no room for development in your relationship then the fact is your relationship is coming to an end..
why you want to put yourself and your partner to suffer while you know that the relationship is coming to an end..
Just end it at the right time and not delaying to a longer period and at that later time, you'll have to be blame again..
There's really not a a need to do this shit..
So fellow readers, if you felt that you are in this position currently then think twice...
Think again, does this relationship worth your time and your patience??
If yes then just go on with it and work harder in making a fairytale ending in your love life...
Thats all i want to say here...
